Complicated love? Love doesn’t have to be difficult and it is not always that way.Though there are reasons why love may seem complicated and some of these reasons will surprise you, while others won’t.
To find out some reasons why love can be
complicated, stick around.
Reasons
why love is complicated
1. Technological advancement.
Surprise!!! Yes, technology. This is surprisingly one of the reasons
why love could become complicated at times. The more aware we become technologically,
the more people get attached to their devices.
So many people cannot do without their
smart-phones and other intelligent devices. In fact, they value them more than
physical relationship with another person as if they were attached to their
devices by the hip.
You need to be careful when getting into
a new relationship and if you are in one already, you really should check your
use of technology because it can sometimes get in the way of your relationship.
You might be on the phone chatting with
your friend while your significant other needs your attention. Your inability
to put your chat on hold that moment could result to a lot of things like
insecurity in the part of your partner thereby leading to complications in your
relationship.
2. Age gap in-tech.
With reference with (1), difference in
technology age could also result to complications in relationship. If you are well advanced in the use of
various devices and your partner isn’t, it could be dangerous for your
relationship. It can also result to jealousy from their part. They could
misinterpret it as unfaithfulness. They feel you are on phone chatting or
flirting with someone else.
It is advised to date someone who is at same level with you or a little above or below yours when it comes to the use of technology. You might think it doesn’t matter now until you are into the relationship.
3. Past experiences.
Ones past plays a significant
role in how much healthy your relationship can be. Negative past experiences ranging from
child molestation, rape, abusive parents or partners can make loving
complicated.
Sometimes people, who had one bad
relationship after another, can easily bring baggage ‘unclear
thoughts and emotions’ into
their next relationship.
In the advent of this, regardless of how
good, loving and respected they are treated or how much they care about their
significant other, due to their negative mind set or pre thoughts, they may
eventually make their relationship complicated.
4. Indecision or wavering.
Some people just get things complicated
themselves. They don’t really know why they complicate things, and this
altitude always gets them involved in unstable relationship or makes once
pleasant relationship turn upside-down.
In other words, love is complicated
because a partner is frequently changing their mind. One minute they say or do
what’s right and the next they don’t. Their mood can’t be predicted. They are
happy this moment and the next they are something else.
5. Things
move swiftly
Love can be so complicated especially
when things very fast between two people.
When in love, your judgment over a thing
could be clouded. You may overlook behaviors or things you shouldn’t because of
the swift movement of things between you too. You may think this is not a big
deal, but could be a deal breaker if deep within, you don’t want things to move
at the pace they are currently moving.
Your inability to communicate this to
your significant other could result to complications later in the relationship
when you take all the decision to slow things down.
6. Deceit.
This is also a serious red flag you
don’t want to overlook in a relationship. This has caused a lot of heart breaks
recently. People claim to be in love and yet lie about so many things just to
get married. Some lie about their financial status, health status etc.
The moment your significant other
realizes you deceived them into the relationship, they start feeling bad and
may respond with negative responses and possibly breakups.
There are few reasons why love is
complicated. However, you want to guide against the above listed to have a
sweet relationship.
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Why Is Love So Complicated
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