Attracting Men: The Irresistible Secrets No One Talks About

When it comes to knowing how to attract men, there are a few very real secrets no one ever talks about. Want to be the girl who can catch any guy’s eye?

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There’s an evolutionary secret that can help you understand how to attract men and make them desire you instantly. And the real secret’s right here. It’s not just about a few tips or moves to get a guy interested in you.

If you understand the very real idea behind attraction, you’ll see everything in a whole new way. The science of attraction between the sexes, as complicated as it may seem, is pretty simple to explain in a few lines.

First, what attracts you to a man?

From hundreds of studies and research over the decades, we’ve learned that girls are more easily attracted to a guy who appears healthy and stress-free, has a good level of testosterone which makes him appear more manly and chiseled, and has a protective streak in him which makes him a good mate material and a father.

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Guys, on the other hand, are more easily attracted to girls based on their appearance or behavior.

But that’s not it though. To truly understand how to attract men and how a man’s mind works, we need to get deeper into the concept of attraction from the male point of view.

How to attract men in a way they can’t resist

A guy may like a girl for different reasons. But when it comes to physical or sexual attraction at first sight, her physical appearance and her behavior matters more than anything else. Its’ just the basic truth.

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So if you want to attract a man and make him desire you, you just need to get his attention the right way and you’ll be sure to catch his eye in the first place.

But here’s the key thought to remember. And you need to keep this in mind. Love and attraction are two completely different things. A guy may find you extremely attractive and sexy, and yet he may not end up falling in love with you. To be drawn to a woman, there are things that are far more important than just looking “sexy” or “cute”.

Of course, for love to bloom in the first place, it’s important to attract him and build the sexual attraction with him. But to make him fall in love with you, he needs to feel emotionally connected to you.

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Attraction and how a man views a woman’s body

As we know that physical attraction plays a very big part in attracting a guy, you need to understand what a guy’s mind tells him when he sees you and sizes you up sexually.

When a guy sees a girl’s physical assets, he subconsciously sees more than just your breasts or your butt. The right curves in all the right places tells a guy that a girl is fertile and has come of age, and that she’s healthy because her body can afford to waste energy on developing her curves which play the biggest role in sexual attraction.

A guy may think a girl is attractive. But in his subconscious mind, he’s gauging you as the woman who may carry his offspring one day. Of course, it doesn’t matter if you’re looking for a fling or a partner, this is just what a man subconsciously sees in a woman if he intends to approach her.

Testosterone and a man’s sexual preference

Every man produces testosterone, a sexual hormone, in his testes. And women produce a small amount of testosterone in their ovaries. The more testosterone a man produces, the more manly he looks and the more sexually virile he is. His facial features appear manlier, his jaws are wider and more chiseled and his voice is deeper.

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And several studies have shown that the more manly a man is, the more attracted he’d be to women who exhibit feminine traits.

On the other hand, a small percentage of men who produce a lesser-than-normal amount of testosterone may find themselves getting more attracted to women who are less feminine and more controlling and dominant in the relationship.

So if you’re trying to catch the attention of a masculine guy, a large percentage of men have normal or high production of testosterone even though the overall average testosterone levels have dropped significantly in men (globally) over the last 50 years, chances are, he’d love you if your behavior is more feminine, cute and girly.

The perfect woman for a real man – She’s cute and sexy

A regular masculine man who isn’t suffering from low testosterone would always find a feminine woman more attractive than a woman who thinks femininity is overrated and displays traits that are traditionally considered masculine.

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While a girl’s physical appearance is the biggest sign of femininity, at times, it helps if you can display more femininity in your behavior. There are always other ways to appear cuter and get a guy to take a second and third look at you.

Be yourself, but be better

Contrary to popular belief, don’t be yourself. Rather, EVOLVE.

When someone tells you that the best way to attract someone is by being yourself, well, they’re not entirely right. All of us change all the time. And not every change that we see in ourselves may be in the right direction.

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Who are you? How would you define yourself? We are who we are because of our socioeconomic status, the people around us, social media, your current desires and wants, and other influences we’ve had in our lifetime. We change all the time, heck, you’re not who you were last year or two years ago, are you?

A lucky few may have had the opportunity to be influenced by the perfect role models, while most of us have to change to become better individuals. Or worse, we never get to become better individuals or achieve the full potential that’s within us because we’re convinced we’re all perfect already. We’re bull-headed and believe in something, and don’t want to change no matter what. But remember that change remains constant.

You don’t have to change yourself just to attract men, but change yourself to become a better person. Have you ever walked into a room full of attractive women, and found yourself thinking that a few of those girls were better than you in some way?

When you meet a woman and find yourself in awe of her for any reason at all, it only means you admire and desire some particular trait of hers that you lack yourself.

If you like a trait about a friend, be it her spontaneity, her courage, her carefree attitude, her posture, or the way she dresses up, your mind may subconsciously like that trait because you want to see that trait in yourself. A change of this kind is good, where you see something you like and want to see that in yourself.

A girl who is the epitome of perfection in every way, won’t be awed by anyone else. On the other hand, everywhere she goes, she’d be the girl that would receive compliments, stares and awed jaws!

So change often, become the dream girl you fantasize about in your head, and be the girl you really want to be. And life will turn out to be so much better for you, be it about men, work, friends or anything else.

It’s easy to push a thought away and assume it’s wrong to be feminine or assume it’s a bad thing to change. But change is good. And change is inevitable. You’re going to change whether you like it or not. And you have a choice to become a better you or not.

The male and female sexes still play games to win each other’s affection. Human males still like to woo a female through their display of brute strength, power or their sheer awesomeness. And a man laden with male hormones wants a woman who’s graceful and feminine, because subconsciously, it makes him feel more like a man.

You don’t have to pretend to be dumb or weak, nor do you have to behave like the “weaker” sex just to attract a man. How the did femininity even get associated with the “weaker” tag in the first place?

All you need to do is revel in your femininity and display your feminine side, and give the man you like a chance to bask in his manliness and show off his masculinity.

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