Guest post by: Telisha Andrew
This is a topic with so many contradictions. Many are
shy to talk about it yet they are fully engaged in the act. This post may seem
different from what you have been reading on this blog. But there is never a wasted
knowledge.
We’re looking at the art of pillow humping, why
women do it and the techniques you can use to learn how to hump a pillow and
moan your way to the best solo orgasms.
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The thought of pillow humping might sound silly and awkward,
but the fact is most people have done it at one point or another.
As a girl going through puberty, odds are, you had
to find new and exciting ways to touch yourself without the convenience of
running to the store and picking up toys. Here comes pillow humping.
You’re lying in bed, feeling tingly and horny all at
the same time, and you just don’t know what to do or how to find a release of
this over whelming feeling. In fact, you don’t even know what or how exactly you’re
feeling because it feels all weird and nice at the same time.
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During one of these moments, you unintentionally grab
a pillow and placed it in between your legs and roll about on the bed, because
somehow it seems like a good idea to just roll over it the pillow.
And suddenly, you realize it feels good. Like really
good. You move the pillow around a bit more, and bang, it feels better, even
way better than expected. And then before you know it, you’re grinding the pillow
like a sex object/doll. And that is usually your first introduction to pillow
humping.
So,
what is pillow humping?
What is pillow humping? Or you want to ask: How do
you pillow hump?
Well, this technique basically involves a woman
mounting a pillow and grinding herself to orgasm. Kind of like dry humping
without a human company.
Why
do people hump inanimate objects?
Strange as it sounds, humping inanimate things
usually starts during childhood. This does not mean it has to be sexual. Psychologists
and parents agree that many children start displaying sexual behavior
early. So many things have changed and children are not left behind.
This can manifest itself through simulated
intercourse like dry humping/pillow humping, and basically dry humping or
grinding against household objects because it is readily available. More reason
to keep an eye on your kids because you don’t just know what they are up to.
This is common for children in the 9-12 age
range. However, children’s ages vary for discovering their bodies. You’d be
surprised to know how many people carry their pillow humping habits into
adulthood.
Read: Children
and youth sexual behavior
Pillow
humping for girls: The different ways and methods of pillow humping
You don’t need a sex toy to pillow hump. If you’re
still living under your parent’s roof, or are just too shy to head to a sex
shop and buy a sex toy, pillows are an alternative.
Curious to know how to hump your pillows to orgasm?
We’re always here to help. Here are the tips and tricks on how to make yourself
cum with your very own pillow.
1. Corner of
the bed.
Some girls like taking a pillow and placing it on
the corner of their mattress while humping their pillows. This way, they can
grind against it while standing and get more friction from the mattress edge
than they would if the pillow were just lying flat on the bed.
2. The
triple (3) stack method.
This pillow humping method involves stacking three
pillows one on top of another, and mounting them. Using a rocking motion, grind
back and forth until you find a rhythm that gets your cruise running.
You may feel a bit out of balance at first, but you
will feel like you’re lying on top of someone, which is pretty close to the
idea of dry humping.
3. The stuffed animal, eg teddy
beer.
Ever wonder why many girls keep stuffed animals on
their bed well into our 20’s? We have a disturbing answer: They might be
humping the stuffed toys and that is so true for many girls.
Stuffed animals, body pillows, or oversized stuffed
animals are great for humping because they have different shapes and other
features that can spice up a humping session.
For example, their button nose can be the perfect button
for clitoral stimulation.
And the best part is, as a girl, you can literally
buy any stuffed toy keeping the specific shape in mind. And no one but you
would have a clue what your real intentions are.
4. Shape
your pillow like a body.
Sounds creepy right? But it really does make all the
difference. While pillows are great sex alternatives, they don’t give you that
body-on-body connection you get from a partner.
So you can set up your pillows until they resemble a
body shape on your mattress. This allows you to cuddle up against the mound
while you grind away and give you a fabulous up close and personal feel like
you’re actually having sex you’re your partner underneath you.
5. Ride the
pillow.
Fold the pillow in half to make it firm. Now squat
on it like you’re riding the pillow, and grind against the folded pillow.
If you need to visualize it, just imagine being on
top while having sex, but with a pillow instead.
6. Traditional
pillow humping.
Place your pillow in the middle of your mattress,
under your pelvic area, and start grinding with your legs as spread apart as
you can get them.
7. Fold that fluff.
Another popular method of pillow grinding is to fold
the pillow in half before mounting. This will make your pillow firmer and
easier to get friction from.
8. Be loud.
On average, women are noisier and louder in bed than men. That doesn’t
mean being loud is only for the benefit of a partner’s ears! People make noise
during sex because it feels good, not because it sounds good. Unless they’re
faking it.
Regardless, don’t be afraid to get a little loud
during your humping session. It’ll feel that much hotter and you’ll feel much
hornier too.
Note: Don’t do this if there are other people in the
house!
9. Take it
off.
Even if you keep your underwear on, try removing
your shirt and bra. Lean forward and grind against your pillow and feel the
fabulousness of your breasts bounding against the pillowcase as you grind back
and forth.
10. Widen those labia.
If you’re grinding with panties on, try spreading
your labia and setting your vagina against the pillow with it spread. This
allows more direct stimulation for the clitoris.
11. Put on
silky panties.
When you’re completely aroused, grinding can feel
amazing with no clothes on. But, until you hit that point, it may be too much
pressure and might bruise your clit.
Instead, try grinding with silky panties on. This
allows you to slide against the pillow with ease and will be gentler on your
sensitive areas.
12. Add another component.
Stack your pillow under your hips, or wherever is
most comfortable. Then, try adding a new element to the mix such as a vibrator
or empty shampoo bottle. Place the phallic object underneath the pillow.
Placing it underneath will create an arch for you to
grind against and more closely resemble grinding against your partner.
Pillow humping is pretty straightforward. Just jump
on your pillow, start grinding and get those orgasms on.
The key features leading to orgasm are a soft but
resistant mound creating friction while conforming to the woman’s body, and
tension in the vagina and thighs from all that grinding.
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